Tiny Thots: Keeping friends by knowing when not to speak (Proverbs) | 11.20.10
Proverbs 11:12-13
12 Those who have no sense deride their neighbors,
but those who have understanding hold their tongues. 13 Gossips betray a confidence,
but the trustworthy keep a secret. Musings
I was particularly struck by the clear definition of gossip and the use of the strong and emotionally-charged verb “betray.”
Both verses speak about how we react, and specifically about a measured sensitivity to those close to us – neighbors and confidantes – that instructs us to use wise restraint. This kind of wisdom builds relationships through patient, empathic understanding, rather than tears them down.
12 Those who have no sense deride their neighbors,
but those who have understanding hold their tongues. 13 Gossips betray a confidence,
but the trustworthy keep a secret. Musings
I was particularly struck by the clear definition of gossip and the use of the strong and emotionally-charged verb “betray.”
Both verses speak about how we react, and specifically about a measured sensitivity to those close to us – neighbors and confidantes – that instructs us to use wise restraint. This kind of wisdom builds relationships through patient, empathic understanding, rather than tears them down.
posted by Pam Chun at 11:49 PM
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