Wednesday, August 29, 2012

Gordon Ramsay's Tikka Masala

Can't wait to try this!

[original post from Channel 4]

Make sure that you have all the ingredients ready before you start. Get yourself familiar with all the different spices as it is imperative that you get the quantities right. We don't want any confusion. A great tikka masala is about getting the balance of flavours right.

Here's Gordon's chicken tikka masala recipe in full. The instructions to go with the Cookalong video are as follows:

Heat 2 tablespoons of groundnut oil in a pan.

Slice 1 large onion and sauté in the hot oil.

De-seed and chop 1 or 2 fresh green chillies and peel and chop a 1 inch piece of ginger.

Add to the pan with the onions, crush in 3 garlic cloves and cook for 2-3 minutes until the onions are nicely caramelised.

Add the ½ teaspoon of chilli powder, 1 teaspoon of turmeric, 2 teaspoons of garam masala, 1 tablespoon of soft brown sugar and cook for 1-2 minutes.

The spices will start releasing their aroma, and they will soak up the oil. The mixture in your pan will become dry. Don't worry, this is normal.

Next, add 1 tablespoon of tomato puree and cook it out to make sure you lose the bitterness you can sometimes get if it's too raw. You should have a dry paste texture at this stage.

Add the 400g tin of chopped tomatoes to the pan and allow to cook for a further few minutes.

Transfer the sauce to a food processor and blend until smooth.

Pour the blended sauce back into the pan and add 10 dried curry leaves. Simmer gently for 10 minutes, to allow the flavours to come through.

Stir in 4-6 tablespoons of natural yoghurt - the quantity depends on how mild you like your curry.

Finish with a handful of chopped coriander.

Tuesday, March 20, 2012

Sautéed Cauliflower

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 I discovered this on the search for a good, basic recipe for mashed cauliflower when flipping through Alice Waters' book The Art of Simple Food. Simple it is and delicious tossed Italian style with capers and chopped olives, an served over pasta.

This is tasty as a side vegetable or served as a pasta sauce, tossed with large noodles.

1 large head or 2 small heads of cauliflower
2 tbsp olive oil
Salt
Extra virgin olive oil

Clean the leaves from the cauliflower. Remove the base of the stem with a small, sharp knife. From the top down, cut the cauliflower into 1/4-inch slices. (If the cauliflower is large, cut in half for easier slicing.)

Heat in a heavy-bottomed pan over medium-high heat 2 tablespoons olive oil. Once the oil is hot, but not smoking, add the cauliflower and season with salt. Let the cauliflower sit until it starts to brown a bit before stirring or tossing. Cook, continuing to stir or toss until the cauliflower is tender, about 7 minutes total. Don't worry if the cauliflower starts to break up; that is part of the charm of the dish. Taste for salt and add more if needed.

Finish with a drizzle of extra-virgin olive oil

Variations:

  • When the cauliflower is a minute or so from being done, add a couple of chopped garlic cloves and 1 tablespoon chopped parsley.
  • Garnish with a handful of Toasted Breadcrumbs (page 63).
  • A classic Italian dish adds the parsley and garlic along with chopped salt-cured anchovies and capers, hot chile flakes, and coarsely chopped olives. This is delicious on pasta.
  • Sprinkle with fresh-ground cumin, chopped garlic, turmeric, and chopped cilantro during the last few minutes of cooking.

Sunday, March 18, 2012

Mashed Cauliflower

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Looks like mashed potatoes. Tastes like mashed potatoes. Not mashed potatoes. And a lot healthier for you!

I grew up eating cauliflower, usually stir-fried with pork Chinese style. I'm not sure if it was my Chicago-born and raised mother's idea, or my paternal grandfather's. But, I had never had them mashed. when I set my eyes upon the healthy, large, organic white cauliflower on sale at Whole Foods and tasted the mashed cauliflower with garlic and chopped parsley, I snapped up a coouple heads to mash for myself.

TherRecipe is simple:

Make your favorite mashed potato recipe, substituting cauliflower for potatoes. You can either steam or boil your cauliflower, cooking 20-30 minutes until tender to the fork. I used garlic, butter, milk, salt and pepper. I sampled some mashed cauliflower at our local Whole Foods last week. This one was prepared with garlic and chopped parsley.

For a vegan reiteration of this recipe, substitute olive oil for butter, and vegetable stock for milk. I ate mine with brown rice the first night and tossed with nooldels in the second. Mmmmm! cauliflower never tasted so good.

Wednesday, August 03, 2011

Lentil Soup

Lentil Soup

1 tsp minced garlic
1 onion, chopped fine
1 large carrot, chopped fine
2 stalks celery, chopped fine
2 Tbsp butter or olive oil
2 cups dry lentils, rinsed and picked through
1 heaping tsp sea salt
1 heaping tsp of cumin
1 14-oz can chopped tomatoes (optional)
2 quarts chicken stock, vegetable stock, or water

¼ cup or to taste of white wine or dry vermouth) optional

In a large stock pot, sauté the garlic, onion, carrots and celery in butter/oil until translucent. Stir in the lentils, onions, salt, and cumin to the lentils. Add optional tomatoes and stock and bring to a boil. Turn down heat to simmer, add optional wine, and let cook for another 40 min. The soup will naturally thicken. Salt and pepper to taste.

The lentils may be blended after the soup is done if you prefer a smooth soup. Half a cup of chopped spinach or Swiss chard may be added fifteen minutes before the lentils are done.

Wednesday, July 13, 2011

Tiny Thots: Pride is an action, humilty a result. | 07.13.11

Pride references my ability, humility acknowledges God's.

Monday, July 11, 2011

Tiny Thots: If I should write a book, remind me to not make it a "How To" but a "How I" | 07.11.11

Tiny Thots: If I should write a book, remind me to not make it a "How To" but a "How I" | 07.11.11

Tuesday, July 05, 2011

Creamed Corn

The richest creamed corn you'll ever have, but oh so good! Courtesy of my fab cooking friend Barb.

In a large pot, combine then simmer for 5 minutes:
2 20-oz packages frozen corn niblets
1-1/2 pints half & half cream
6 Tablespoons sugar
1 tsp salt
Pinch of pepper
1/4 t MSG (optional)

Mix together then add to corn:
2 Tbsp butter, melted
2  heaping Tbsp flour

Sprinkle with:
Parmesan cheese

Put into an oven-proof casserole. Cover and back at 350° for 30 minutes. To brown, remove cover for last 10 minutes. Alternatively, simmer on stove until thickened, stirring occasionally.

Saturday, June 25, 2011

Lebanese Vegetable Soup

My sister and her son in Palo Alto recently introduced me to a delicious and hearty Lebanese Vegetable Soup that she picked up from the deli at her local Whole Foods Market. I scoured the internet and happily found several recipes online, including one from the famed Sunday’s at Moosewood Restaurant cookbook. Below is my rendition, gobbled down by my husband, much to my surprise. Serve this to your vegetarian friends, as chickpeas are great for protein! If cooking's not your thing, check out your local Whole Foods Market, which may or may not have it on its hot foods line. Mine didn't. But that just meant I got to learn how to cook a new soup!

2 tablespoons olive oil
1 large onion, chopped (about 2 cups)
3 medium carrots, chopped (2 1/2 cups)
1-2 stalks celery, chopped (1-1/2 cups)
I bay leaf
3-4 twigs fresh thyme
1 teaspoon ground coriander seeds
2-4 garlic cloves, minced
1 1/2 - 2 cups sweet potatoes cut in 1/2" cubes
Sea salt to taste
Pepper to taste
1 qt vegetable stock
1 28-oz can Italian plum tomatoes (pomodori pelati), broken up with fingers and hard core removed
10 artichoke hearts cut into eighths (2 cans ), liquid drained and saved
2 cups canned or cooked chickpeas (garbanzo beans), drained

Optional seasonings
Dash of Maggi seasoning
1-2 tsp of sugar
Shot or two of white wine

Heat olive oil in a large stock pot. Add onions, carrots and celery and sauté only onions are translucent (7-10 minutes). Add coriander, bay leaf and thyme; stir to coat vegetables. Add sweet potato, tomatoes and their liquid, and drained liquid from the artichoke hearts. Season with 2 ample pinches of sea salt and pepper to taste. Bring soup to a boil, cover, reduce heat and simmer 10 minutes, or until sweet potatoes are tender. Add chickpeas and vegetable stock, and bring to a new simmer. Add artichoke pieces, and simmer for 3 minutes so the flavors can meld. Before serving, adjust with additional salt and pepper and optional seasonings (above). Also remove bay leaf and thyme twigs. 

*If you prefer a thick soup, after sweet potatoes are tender, remove bay and thyme, then blend with an immersion stick blender; then proceed with recipe.

Café Beaujolais Cherry Clafouti

Thank you, Margaret S. Fox!

 

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After going on and on in an earlier post about clafoutis and Café Beaujolais, where I had my first love at first bite, here at last is the Café Beaujolais recipe for clafouti, excerpted from founder/chef Margaret S. Fox’s cookbook Morning Food.  It requires little skill, mostly fresh fruit and a little patience while you wait to sink your teeth into it. I made a clafouti this morning using fresh raspberries, and oh my!

Clafoutis are traditional French desserts. My version has been adapted from a recipe published by Gaston LeNotre, then famous French patissier. Although they are especially good with cherries, they can be prepared with various kinds of fruit, including an assortment of leftovers, if that is whay you happen to have: apples, strawberries, pears, whatever. Anything but bananas or canned fruit cocktail, please. Canned fruit cocktail clafouti would set Franco-American relations back forty years.
 
1 egg
6 Tbsp white sugar
3 Tbsp white flour
6 Tbsp heavy whipping cream
1-1/3 cups pitted cherries
3 Tbsp melted butter (warn, not hot)
 
Preheat the oven to 400°.
In a bowl, beat the egg and sugar with a whisk until the mixture whitens. Stir in the flour and cream. Beat until completely smooth. Pour half of the batter over the cherries in a medium-sized bowl and fold together gently.
 
Spread the cherry mixture evenly over the bottom of a buttered 8-inch pie pan. Bake for 15 minutes. Meanwhile, beat the butter into the remaining batter, then pour this over the half-baked cherry batter. Replace in oven and bake for another 15 minutes, or unitl golden brown. Remove from the oven and let cool for 10 minutes. Sprinkle with powdered sugar and serve.

*Note: I’ve used a stick blender with a whisk attachment. The blender’s accompanying marked cup makes it easy to divide and pour the batter.

Apple Clafoutis

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Thursday, April 07, 2011

Daniel Fast Pick-Me-Up

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Apple banana slices over fresh ground organic almond butter spread on whole grain crackers. I seriously think it takes longer to [munch-munch] eat these then make 'em. Pretty satisfying.

Wednesday, March 16, 2011

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Leeks, potatoes…that’s about it.

Shopping at my local farmer’s market the other day, I happ’d upon some fresh, young leeks, emphasis upon young. I’d been in a soup mode, and my husband and I were preparing to embark on The Daniel Fast, a strict, nearly vegan diet not so much about the fasting as focusing on God. But that’s another story. Of course, I turned to my handy, faithful Julia Child cookbook, The Way to Cook — one of the best, basic cookbooks I’ve found for delicious eating from your own kitchen. Here’s Julia’s recipe, followed by my variation tonight—which, I must say, yielded a completely satisfying, albeit not vegan, supper.


Leek and Potato Soup
MASTER RECIPE

Here is the mother of the family in all her simplicity. You’ll note there’s no chicken stock here, just water, leeks, potatoes, and salt in the soup base. However, you may include chicken stock if you wish, and you may certainly include milk. A bit of cream at the end is nourishing touch, but by no means a necessity.

4 cups cleaned, sliced leeks — the white part and a bit of the tender green*
4 cups diced potatoes — old or baking potatoes recommended
6 to 7 cups water
1-1/2 to 2 tsp salt, or to taste
1/2 cup or more sour cream, heavy cream, or créme fraîche, optional

Bring the leeks, potatoes, and water to a boil in a heavy-bottomed 3-quart saucepan. Salt lightly, cover partially, and simmer 20 to 30 minutes, or until the vegetables are tender. Taste, and correct seasoning.

That’s it!
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Serving au Naturel
Ladle out the soup, and top each serving with a dollop of sour cream, if you wish.

Pureed Leek and Potato Soup
Puree the soup through a vegetable mill,, blender or using an immersion stick blender.

Cream of Leek and Potato Soup
Use a cup less liquid when simmering the soup. After puréeing, whisk in 2/3 cup or more of sour cream, heavy cream, or créme fraîche, simmering a moment to blend.

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I told you it was easy.
Tonight, I substituted for the water: 4 cups vegetable broth, 2 cups of water and 1 tsp of concentrated vegetable boullion. The vegetables were tender in to 20 minutes. I puréed the soup with my stick blender and added 2/3 cup heavy cream.

Sunday, January 16, 2011

Tiny Thots: My Day in Words & Pictures | 01.16.11

My pikake budding and blooming after the rain

 

The Ko‘olaus

 

Sunday worship at First Prez Honolulu. A message by my husband on Authenticity.

 

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Sound byte of Cory Oliveros and the First Prez worship team singing "Just the Way You Are"

 

Ka‘u oranges from Hawaii's Big Island. The saying goes, the uglier, the sweeter.

 

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Audio of Tim Keller's sermon "The Problem of Blessing," my third time listening and learning more. | http://thegospelcoalition.org/resources/a/The-Problem-of-Blessing

A full day.

Saturday, January 08, 2011

Tiny Thots: A good thought for today: Imagine Me | Kirk Franklin | 01.08.11

Thanking my son, Dylan, for introducing this song to me today!

Imagine me
Loving what I see when the mirror looks at me cause I
I imagine me
In a place of no insecurities
And I'm finally happy cause
I imagine me

Letting go of all of the ones who hurt me
Cause they never did deserve me
Can you imagine me?
Saying no to thoughts that try to control me
Remembering all you told me
Lord, can you imagine me?
Over what my mama said
And healed from what my daddy did
And I wanna live and not read that page again

[Chorus:]
Imagine me, being free, trusting you totally finally I can...
Imagine me
I admit it was hard to see
You being in love with someone like me
But finally I can...
Imagine me

Being strong
And not letting people break me down
You won't get that joy this time around
Can you imagine me?
In a world (in a world) where nobody has to live afraid
Because of your love fears gone away
Can you imagine me?

[Bridge:]
Letting go of my past
And glad I have another chance
And my heart will dance
'Cause I don't have to read that page again

Tiny Thots: A good thought for today: Imagine Me | Kirk Franklin | 01.08.11

Thanking my son, Dylan, for introducing this song to me today!

Imagine me
Loving what I see when the mirror looks at me cause I
I imagine me
In a place of no insecurities
And I'm finally happy cause
I imagine me

Letting go of all of the ones who hurt me
Cause they never did deserve me
Can you imagine me?
Saying no to thoughts that try to control me
Remembering all you told me
Lord, can you imagine me?
Over what my mama said
And healed from what my daddy did
And I wanna live and not read that page again

[Chorus:]
Imagine me, being free, trusting you totally finally I can...
Imagine me
I admit it was hard to see
You being in love with someone like me
But finally I can...
Imagine me

Being strong
And not letting people break me down
You won't get that joy this time around
Can you imagine me?
In a world (in a world) where nobody has to live afraid
Because of your love fears gone away
Can you imagine me?

[Bridge:]
Letting go of my past
And glad I have another chance
And my heart will dance
'Cause I don't have to read that page again

Sunday, January 02, 2011

Tiny Thots: Here's why mothers should save their emails | 01.02.11

An email dated March 10, 2005 describing and quoting my then 10 year old son

Getting into the car with flower for me in hand, "It's hard not to love your mother."

Thursday, December 30, 2010

Crispy skinned roast chicken å la Martha Stewart

Trying my hand at a variation of Martha Stewart’s crispy skinned chicken – basically roasting a chicken sprinkled with 1-1-/2 tablespoons of cornstarch mixed with salt. I like to butterfly my chicken so it will cook faster and brown evenly. I season it on both sides, then broil for 10-12 minutes skin side down until browned, and then flip it skin side up to roast at a high temp (450° - 500°) until done — about 25-35 minutes, or until juices run clear.

*My secret to a great roast chicken: Don’t overcook it!

Friday, December 03, 2010

Tiny Thot: Love never gives up | 12.03.10 #TeensyThot

1 Corinthians 13 (The Message)

 1 If I speak with human eloquence and angelic ecstasy but don't love, I'm nothing but the creaking of a rusty gate. 2If I speak God's Word with power, revealing all his mysteries and making everything plain as day, and if I have faith that says to a mountain, "Jump," and it jumps, but I don't love, I'm nothing. 3-7If I give everything I own to the poor and even go to the stake to be burned as a martyr, but I don't love, I've gotten nowhere. So, no matter what I say, what I believe, and what I do, I'm bankrupt without love.

   Love never gives up.
   Love cares more for others than for self.
   Love doesn't want what it doesn't have.
   Love doesn't strut,
   Doesn't have a swelled head,
   Doesn't force itself on others,
   Isn't always "me first,"
   Doesn't fly off the handle,
   Doesn't keep score of the sins of others,
   Doesn't revel when others grovel,
   Takes pleasure in the flowering of truth,
   Puts up with anything,
   Trusts God always,
   Always looks for the best,
   Never looks back,
   But keeps going to the end.

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Wednesday, November 24, 2010

In the chess game of life, there's often an unseen hand [#teensythot]

Tiny Thots: Letting Go | 11.23.10

It’s hard to let go. But I’m learning.

I’m learning that letting go doesn’t mean dropping, abandoning, or failing. It doesn’t mean you have to rip out a piece of your heart, or nurse a lingering vacuum where whatever you let go used to reside.

If I can picture letting go of something or someone into the hands of God, it becomes a transfer into the hands of someone more trustworthy than I.

If I can release my grip with gratitude, if I can open wide my palm and freely give rather than begrudgingly hand over, I no longer feel robbed and deprived —and, instead, I allow myself to feel blessed.

But why should we let go of objects and people and situations we cherish?
I need to let go because holding anything that close constricts me and seizes the heart.
Letting go frees me up to possibilities that exceed my imagination, ability, and resources.

Letting go lets me be a child who trusts my Father who loves her far more than I ever realized

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Saturday, November 20, 2010

Tiny Thots: Keeping friends by knowing when not to speak (Proverbs) | 11.20.10

Proverbs 11:12-13

12 Those who have no sense deride their neighbors,
   but those who have understanding hold their tongues.

 13 Gossips betray a confidence,
   but the trustworthy keep a secret.

Musings
I was particularly struck by the clear definition of gossip and the use of the strong and emotionally-charged verb “betray.”
Both verses speak about how we react, and specifically about a measured sensitivity to those close to us – neighbors and confidantes – that instructs us to use wise restraint. This kind of wisdom builds relationships through patient, empathic understanding, rather than tears them down.

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Thursday, November 18, 2010

Control is the ultimate illusion [#teensythot]

Tiny Thots: Specks, sawdust, planks, shortcuts and passwords (a not too tiny thot) | 11.18.10

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The world around us is full of judgment:
You did this. I saw you do that. You lied, you half-lied, you knew better, you cheated. That was wrong. You were less than honest.

If we’re not getting that from others, we’re throwing that at others. Or maybe we do hear it and throw it back in a vicious, mud-slinging, name smearing, last-one-standing-must be- right fight.

We disguise our judgment in expertise, research, intelligence and the words, “I’m doing this for your own good.” But what good does it do? It creates guilt, a sense of failure, recrimination, a critical spirit that breeds on itself.

Two things came to mind this morning:

The words of Jesus as recorded in the Gospel of Matthew, chapter 7 where he talks about the specks of sawdust we see in others’ eyes and the planks of wood in our eyes.
  • And a Hillsong song, “From the Inside Out.”

    I’m not sure what one has to do with the other, but I’ll try to articulate it. Somehow, I can give up judging and start loving, really caring for others as they should be cared for and thought of, as I should care for them in order for me to do the greatest good for them and for myself— when I become BOTH fully aware of my shortcomings (my specks and planks) AND God’s grace.

    Pastor Tim Keller of Redeemer Church in New York City talks about knowing God’s grace this way: Never do we find God’s grace unless something has gotten to us to see our weakness, our insufficiency, our flawedness, our sin, our neediness.

    In this way of thinking, my flaws become my crack in the door to grace. My door slammed shut to protect myself from the onslaught of others, hidiing behind my nailed-together planks so that I can launch a thousand arrows in return — I can’t, I won’t, let grace in. In The Message version of Matthew 7, Eugene Peterson talks about passwords. My life should not be password-protected…except, except, except by one word:

    Grace.


    A thousand times I've failed
    Still your mercy remains
    And should I stumble again
    Still I'm caught in your grace.

    Everlasting, Your light will shine when all else fades
    Never ending, Your glory goes beyond all fame

    My heart and my soul, I give You control
    Consume me from the inside out, Lord
    Let justice and praise, become my embrace
    To love You from the inside out
    From the Inside Out ~ Hillsong


    Matthew 7 paraphrased by Eugene Peterson in “The Message” version of the New Testament

    A Simple Guide for Behavior
     1-5 "Don't pick on people, jump on their failures, criticize their faults— unless, of course, you want the same treatment. That critical spirit has a way of boomeranging. It's easy to see a smudge on your neighbor's face and be oblivious to the ugly sneer on your own. Do you have the nerve to say, 'Let me wash your face for you,' when your own face is distorted by contempt? It's this whole traveling road-show mentality all over again, playing a holier-than-thou part instead of just living your part. Wipe that ugly sneer off your own face, and you might be fit to offer a washcloth to your neighbor.

     6"Don't be flip with the sacred. Banter and silliness give no honor to God. Don't reduce holy mysteries to slogans. In trying to be relevant, you're only being cute and inviting sacrilege.

     7-11"Don't bargain with God. Be direct. Ask for what you need. This isn't a cat-and-mouse, hide-and-seek game we're in. If your child asks for bread, do you trick him with sawdust? If he asks for fish, do you scare him with a live snake on his plate? As bad as you are, you wouldn't think of such a thing. You're at least decent to your own children. So don't you think the God who conceived you in love will be even better?

     12"Here is a simple, rule-of-thumb guide for behavior: Ask yourself what you want people to do for you, then grab the initiative and do it for them. Add up God's Law and Prophets and this is what you get.

    Being and Doing
     13-14"Don't look for shortcuts to God. The market is flooded with surefire, easygoing formulas for a successful life that can be practiced in your spare time. Don't fall for that stuff, even though crowds of people do. The way to life—to God!—is vigorous and requires total attention.

     15-20"Be wary of false preachers who smile a lot, dripping with practiced sincerity. Chances are they are out to rip you off some way or other. Don't be impressed with charisma; look for character. Who preachers are is the main thing, not what they say. A genuine leader will never exploit your emotions or your pocketbook. These diseased trees with their bad apples are going to be chopped down and burned.

     21-23"Knowing the correct password—saying 'Master, Master,' for instance— isn't going to get you anywhere with me. What is required is serious obedience—doing what my Father wills. I can see it now—at the Final Judgment thousands strutting up to me and saying, 'Master, we preached the Message, we bashed the demons, our God-sponsored projects had everyone talking.' And do you know what I am going to say? 'You missed the boat. All you did was use me to make yourselves important. You don't impress me one bit. You're out of here.'

     24-25"These words I speak to you are not incidental additions to your life, homeowner improvements to your standard of living. They are foundational words, words to build a life on. If you work these words into your life, you are like a smart carpenter who built his house on solid rock. Rain poured down, the river flooded, a tornado hit—but nothing moved that house. It was fixed to the rock.

     26-27"But if you just use my words in Bible studies and don't work them into your life, you are like a stupid carpenter who built his house on the sandy beach. When a storm rolled in and the waves came up, it collapsed like a house of cards."

     28-29When Jesus concluded his address, the crowd burst into applause. They had never heard teaching like this. It was apparent that he was living everything he was saying—quite a contrast to their religion teachers! This was the best teaching they had ever heard.

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    Monday, November 15, 2010

    Tiny Thots: Spoken and heard | 11.15.10

    What I'm hearing today:

     11 One thing God has spoken,
       two things have I heard:
    that you, O God, are strong,
     12 and that you, O Lord, are loving.  Psalm 62:11-12

    One decision can change the way you look at the whole day and every day after.

    "Life is not about easy but about trust." - my friend Margie

    Musing about Psalm 62 - when God speaks his word, we can hear both his strength and his love. How often in human voices do we only hear one or the other, or see one overcome by the other? Exhibited, combined and simultaneous strength and love is an attribute of God that becomes incorporated into our marrow and muscle as we draw closer and closer to him.

    Given that, whenever a decision within the scope of our lives is made in good faith that earnestly looks for God's guidance, we can trust God's strength and love — despite the way that decision may dramatically alter how I see future before me. Again, as Margie so wisely said, "Life is not about easy but about trust." If I know God's strength and love, then I have every reason to trust.

    Jeremiah 29:11 — For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the LORD, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.

    Psalm 62  

         For the director of music. For Jeduthun. A psalm of David.

     1 My soul finds rest in God alone;
       my salvation comes from him.
    2 He alone is my rock and my salvation;
       he is my fortress, I will never be shaken.

     3 How long will you assault a man?
       Would all of you throw him down—
       this leaning wall, this tottering fence?
    4 They fully intend to topple him
       from his lofty place;
       they take delight in lies.
    With their mouths they bless,
       but in their hearts they curse. Selah

     5 Find rest, O my soul, in God alone;
       my hope comes from him.
    6 He alone is my rock and my salvation;
       he is my fortress, I will not be shaken.
    7 My salvation and my honor depend on God;
       he is my mighty rock, my refuge.
    8 Trust in him at all times, O people;
       pour out your hearts to him,
       for God is our refuge.  Selah

     9 Lowborn men are but a breath,
       the highborn are but a lie;
    if weighed on a balance, they are nothing;
       together they are only a breath.
    10 Do not trust in extortion
       or take pride in stolen goods;
    though your riches increase,
       do not set your heart on them.

     11 One thing God has spoken,
       two things have I heard:
    that you, O God, are strong,
     12 and that you, O Lord, are loving.
    Surely you will reward each person
       according to what he has done.

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    Saturday, November 13, 2010

    Tiny Thots: Family | 11.13.10

    Reminded to pray for my family by this photo of my youngest son with my uncle, taken April 2009. My uncle is the second brother and sole survivor from my dad’s family of four brothers. Uncle Hong was 85 when the photo was taken. There’s a lot of kindness and love in my dad’s family – quiet ways of relating to one another through acts of giving passed down from generation to generation. I see that in my uncle’s eyes. I am reminded of where I came from and how much we have to pass on.

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    Friday, November 12, 2010

    Tiny Thots: Beautiful Exchange | 11.12.10

    You were near,
    Though I was distant
    Disillusioned
    I was lost and insecure

    Still mercy fought
    For my attention
    You were waiting at the door,
    Then I let You in

    Trading Your life
    For my offenses
    For my redemption
    You carried all the blame

    Breaking the curse
    Of our condition
    Perfection took our place

    When only love
    Could make a way
    You gave Your life
    In a beautiful exchange

    My burden erase,
    My life forgiven
    There is nothing
    That could take this love away

    My only desire
    And sole ambition
    Is to love You just the same

    Holy are You God
    Holy is Your name
    With everything I’ve got
    My heart will sing how I love You

    - Hillsong 2010

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    Wednesday, November 10, 2010

    Tiny Thots: An undivided heart | 11.10.10

    Psalm 86:11-13

     
    11 Teach me your way, LORD,
       that I may rely on your faithfulness;
    give me an undivided heart,
       that I may fear your name.
    12 I will praise you, Lord my God, with all my heart;
       I will glorify your name forever.
    13 For great is your love toward me;
       you have delivered me from the depths,
       from the realm of the dead.

    New International Version]

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    Monday, November 08, 2010

    Tiny Thots: Yoke's on me | 11.08.10

    “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.”
    Matthew 11:28-30

    Jesus was right. It was much easier and better wearing his yoke today than plowing through life fiercely determined on my own.

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    Saturday, November 06, 2010

    Tiny Thots: Surrender | 11.06.10

    Starting my day by trying to empty everything out so that You can fill it, Lord.

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    Sunday, October 31, 2010

    Tiny Thots: Nothing in This World | 10.31.10

    I wake up most mornings with a song in my head. Today's is "Nothing in This World" by Tim Hughes - good thoughts on my way to Sunday worship this morning.

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    Saturday, October 30, 2010

    Tiny Thots: Lamenting | 10.30.10

    From God on Mute, by Pete Greig (Regal Books, 2007), p 85

       Lamenting is more than a technique for venting emotion. It is one of the fruits of a deepening spiritual life that hs learned to stand naked before God without shame or pretence. In fact long before Gethsemane, Jesus Himself had pronounced that those who mourn are blessed (see Matt 5:4)? “Implicit in this statement notes Walter Brueggermann “is that those who do not mourn will not be comforted and those who do not face the endings will not receive the beginnings.” Honest lament can express a vibrant faith; one that has learned to embrace life’s hardships as well its joy and to lift everything — everything — to the Father in prayers. As the author Richard Foster says of the lament psalms, “They give us permission to shake our fist at God one moment and break into doxology the next.”

    Walter Brueggermann quoted from The Prophetic Imagination, Fortress Press, 2001, p 57
    Richard Foster quoted from Prayer: Finding the Heart’s True Home, Harper-San Francisco 1992, p 24.

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    Thursday, October 28, 2010

    Tiny Thots: Really | 10.21.10

    Do you-we-I allow people to be real? Really? Or do we stop them short of saying what they really feel, being who they really are…because it’s inconvenient, uncomfortable, unmanageable? I’m not talking about strangers, but friends – people we rub shoulders with regularly, daily. What would happen if we let them be real? How would we feel if we were allowed to be real?

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    Saturday, October 16, 2010

    Tiny Thots: Speaking up } 16 Oct 2010

    “If people cannot speak about their affliction they will be destroyed by it, or swallowed up by apathy…without the capacity to communicate with others there can be no change. To become speechless, to be totally without any relationship, that is death.”

    —Dorothee Solle, Suffering, quoted by Pete Greig in his book God on Mute, p 71

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    Monday, October 11, 2010

    "Chasing Rainbows" | Hawaii Film Festival selection

    Excerpted from the site:

    The Film

    The battle between mainstream conservatives and the homosexual movement in America all started in Hawaii in the 1990s with the first lawsuit from a same sex couple suing a state over the right to marry.
    Synopsis

    Hawaii is still on the verge of joining several other states in adopting a same sex union law. HB 444, the Hawaii Civil Unions bill, generated tremendous controversy in our state. It is an issue that is dividing churches, families, generations and many in the workplace. Are a select few in our population pushing an agenda that if passed on the short term, will affect how the vast majority of us live out our lives in the long term?

    We took a look at a number of profound questions in the search for answers:

    What is a civil union, and how does it differ from marriage? Is this a religious, civil rights or political issue? Does a bill for civil unions represent the vast majority of the people’s needs? Who are the driving forces behind this movement and why is it so important to them?

    Is being gay or straight a personal preference, an environmental influence, a hereditary or predetermined genetic factor? Are homosexuals in fact seeking equal rights and benefits under the law, or are they rather seeking to normalize and sanctify same-sex partner relationships and elevate those relationships to a plateau with the same legal and moral status of a heterosexual marriage? And why is Hawaii so pivotal in setting the standard for the rest of the nation?

    Is this strictly a constitutional issue? What will be the long-term outcome from such civil unions or same sex marriage in the United States? How will it affect the traditional marriage, the traditional family? Can it possibly change the fabric of our society, as we know it today? And more importantly, what do established academically certified research studies tell us about these issues?

    We explored the hard facts behind what’s driving the civil unions and same sex movement across America, who’s involved and why they believe what they believe. We took a fair and impartial look at each of the components involved in the proposed civil unions law and how they might affect Hawaii. And along the way, we met with the many people and factions that are for or against such a law and heard why they have taken the stance they do.

    We talked with the legislators and others who crafted and introduced the civil unions bill and those who vehemently opposed it. We talked with clergy on both sides of the issue and examined their differing views.

    We chatted with professional psychologists and legal experts to try and determine the effects of a civil unions law. We looked at what has happened in other states and bring you revealing stories from people who have been impacted by similar laws.

    In Chasing Rainbows we meet, spend time with and get to know a few of the people in Hawaii that would benefit from such a law – and along the way we ask you, the people of America, what you know, think and believe, and why.

    In Chasing Rainbows we take you down a fact-finding path in search of the truth. It’s our goal to be accountable to you and provide a fair, unbiased and detailed view of all the issues involved. In the end it will be up to you to decide just how you feel about civil unions and same-sex marriage, but we’ll warn you: the truth may be surprising.

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    Friday, September 17, 2010

    Tiny Thots: Love and Forgiveness | 17 Sept 2010

    Can one truly love without forgiveness or forgive without love? I don’t know. But I’m going for both.

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    Thursday, September 09, 2010

    Tiny Thots: Elephant Skin | 09.09.10

    Early in his journey as a pastor, my husband was asked by his senior pastor about how he handled criticism and situations that personally impacted him. “Not well,” my husband said. “I’m very sensitive.” His senior pastor responded with a slap on the back and these words: “Well, we’re going to help you develop tough skin, elephant skin.”

    For years since then, I’ve always thought that was what was happening to us, to me. That as challenging, sensitive, soul-piercing, anger-rising, tear-invoking situations came our way, we were developing tough elephant skin. I believed I could rely upon scars and calluses that I couldn’t see to protect me from the hurts and sorrows of life that people shared continuously with us.

    I realized this week, I’ve been wrong. It’s not the scars and calluses that make me able to bear up better in the journey of life. It’s the wounds.

    I don’t feel less. I don’t experience less pain. I’m not less affected by others’ situations. Things don’t roll off my back.  

    I feel more. I cry more. I hurt more deeply.

    Every new wound— feeling the pain of life and always and again experiencing something that cuts deeper into my heart than I’ve  felt before — makes me better able to feel for others. I am a better person even in the hurt that I don’t want or ask for. Wounds help me be compassionate, patient and loving. They show me my humanness, my “wretchedness,” as Paul describes it in Romans 7:24.

    Wounds enlarge my heart because I can feel deeper. And when I do that, I let more  of others in. I let more of God in: God in His love, God and His Presence, God and His mercy and forgiveness which heals the wounds and doesn’t allow the heart to break.

    I’m understanding better now when scripture describes Jesus as “a man of sorrow and who was acquainted with grief” [Isaiah 53:3]:


    But he was pierced for our transgressions,
    he was crushed for our iniquities;
    the punishment that brought us peace was upon him,
    and by his wounds we are healed.

    This is a love that doesn’t grow by having calluses that develop over the wounds, but out of woundedness itself.

    © Pamela A. Chun | 9 September 2010

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    Wednesday, September 08, 2010

    Tiny Thots: Judgment vs. Discernment | 09.08.10

    The difference between being judgmental and being discerning:
    A judgmental attitude wants to exact punishment for a final outcome, while a discerning attitude holds compassion at its center.

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    Tuesday, September 07, 2010

    Reminded by Israel Houghton that "nothing surprises you, Jesus."

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    Surprises
    Featuring Fred Hammond

    From first to last
    You knew my days
    Future and past
    You saw everything
    When I would fail
    When I would win
    When I would
    Grace to start again

    NOTHING SURPRISES YOU
    NOTHING SURPRISES YOU ABOUT ME, JESUS
    NOTHING THAT I COULD DO
    NOTHING COULD SEPARATE YOU FROM ME
    YOU SEE ME,  YOU KNOW ME, YOU LOVE ME
    MADLY

    Cover my life
    Order my steps
    I follow Christ
    My answer’s yes
    Sometimes I rise
    And sometimes I’ll fall
    So glad Your love is unconditional

    You’re not mad at me
    You’re not mad at me
    You’re more than enough
    You’re madly in love with me

    Meleasa Houghton and Israel Houghton © 2010

    Find it on @IsraelNewBreed's new album "Love God. Love People." http://bit.ly/LOVEGOD

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    Saturday, August 28, 2010

    Listening to: Whole World in His Hands | Tim Hughes

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    A good reminder anytime, anywhere.

    Whole World in His Hands

    When all around is fading
    And nothing seems to last
    When each day is filled with sorrow
    Still I know with all my heart

    [chorus]
    He's got the whole world in His hands
    He's got the whole world in His hands
    I fear no evil, for You are with me
    Strong to deliver, mighty to save
    He's got the whole world in His hands

    When I walk through fire
    I will not be burned
    When the waves come crashing round me
    Still I know with all my heart

    Music/Lyrics by Tim Hughes

    http://itunes.apple.com/us/album/whole-world-in-his-hands/id23201256?i=23201228

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    Wednesday, June 30, 2010

    Agree with your adversary quickly . . . ‹ Matthew 5:25

    From June 30th reading from My Utmost for My Highest. [ http://utmost.org/do-it-now/], Oswald Chambers writes:

    In this verse, Jesus Christ laid down a very important principle by saying, “Do what you know you must do— now. Do it quickly. If you don’t, an inevitable process will begin to work ’till you have paid the last penny’ ( Matthew 5:26) in pain, agony, and distress.”

    I have been thinking a lot lately about disagreements with others and how we handle them.

    It seems that the easiest way is to handle them so in the way we are most accustomed. If we come from a family of lawyers, we might sue or seek legal mediation. If we come from a culture of fighting, how easy it would be to take outside and settle it by brute force. If we come from an environment of shame and hiding, we may prefer not saying anything, closing our eyes, retreating and just waiting for it all to fade, pass, and hopefully be forgotten.

    In a way, those modes are the “easiest” way of handling matters. Someone wins. Someone loses. But someone and maybe both parties are also hurt — and there is no reconciliation. There is only right and wrong seen from a personal, subjective point of view guarded carefully and never truly put to rest.

    But God through Jesus calls us to another way. To forgive.

    In every situation, there is plenty of blame to go around. There is plenty enough hurt to be pounded into another’s heart. And blaming, accusing, hurting, pointing fingers and guarding one’s own territory just leads to fences which become walls which become silos of isolation.

    Jesus calls us to forgive because that is the only way to break down barriers that keep us separated from one another. We can’t love unless we extend forgiveness. We can’t feel loved unless we receive forgiveness. Forgiveness says that you, I, we as a relationship are more important than being right.

    So as not to say that I’ve got this under wraps and know to how approach my own adversaries in a neat, tidy, squeaky clean fashion — let me admit outright that this is something I’m working. I say working on because the process — the many steps and paths — of forgiveness is painful. It’s not easy. Because when I’m working on reconciling, it requires that I take time to understand myself first. It’s not solely about the persons on the other side of the fence; it’s as much about me. It takes an enormous amount of soul work and self-examination and vulnerability. It means being raw and honest with myself. It requires taking me to the point where my right to who I am is not as important and valuable as the relationship. It demands God digging around in me to show that his greatness, his spaciousness gives me the capacity to allow differences to be just that: differences and not condemnations or judgment or expectation.

    If I want to love someone else, I have to love for them for who they are and not for who I want them to be. I cannot want them to my image of them, which would in effect be an image of myself. If I have to insist on being right all the time and not forgiving, my world becomes a very lonely place.

    Would we make it our mission to not have adversaries but instead work on restoration


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    Tuesday, May 25, 2010

    Notes on temptation

    From the Life Application Study Bible, Matthew 4
    A person has not shown true obedience if he or she has never had an opportunity to disobey
  • Because we know that testing will come, we should be alert and ready for it. Remember, your convictions are only strong if they hold up under pressure.
  • Although we may feel dirty after being tempted, we should remember that temptation itself is not sin. We sin when we give in and disobey God.
  • Satan often tempts us when we are vulnerable — when we are under physical or emotional stress (for example, lonely, tired, weighing big decisions, or faced with uncertainty).
  • But Satan also like to tempt us through our strengths, where we are most susceptible to pride.
  • Jesus knows firsthand what we are experiencing, and he is willing and able to help us in our struggles. We are tempted, turn to him for strength.
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    Monday, February 15, 2010

    Been jumpin' to all weekend: Israel Houghton | Just Wanna' Say | Music Video

    Sunday, January 31, 2010

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    Friday, January 15, 2010

    I'm standing with my heart abandoned ♪♫♪

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    Standing

    You’re the giver of all things
    You’re the source I find my strength
    You’re the kindness in my eyes
    The hope that lives inside

    You’re the grace for all my tears
    The boldness for my fears
    You’re the laughter in my smile
    You’re everything to me

    I’m standing
    With my heart abandoned
    I freely make my life
    Completely yours

    You’re the faith for all my doubt
    You’re the name that I cry out, Jesus
    The joy of my desire
    You’re my passion, you’re my fire

    I’m standing
    With my heart abandoned
    I freely make my life
    Completely yours

    I’m standing waiting on your presence
    I freely make my life
    Completely yours
    Oh-oh, oh-oh, oh-oh!

    Bridge
    The world around me fades away
    In the fullness of your face
    The world around me fades away
    In the fullness of your face
    It fades away

    I’m standing with my heart abandoned
    I freely make my life
    Completely yours
    I’m standing waiting on your presence
    I freely make my life
    Completely yours

    Highlands Worship | Church of the Highlands
    http://www.highlandsworship.com/

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    Tuesday, January 12, 2010

    Lying with the shepherd

    An “experiment” from Jan Johnson, out of the book Renovation of the Heart in Daily Practice <http://www.amazon.com/Renovation-Heart-Daily-Practice-Transformation/dp/1576838099/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1263319822&amp;sr=8-1> , co-authored with Dallas Willard:

    Quiet yourself and try to truly believe the ideas in Psalm 23:1-3 <http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=psalm%2023&amp;version=NIV> . Picture this sheep who is surrounded by green pastures yet isn’t on his feet munching way. This sheep is so full and satisfied that he contentedly lies down without needing even a bite. Move through the verses in a way such as this (fill in the blanks with details from your life):

                  Maybe the Lord really is my shepherd today. Perhaps I really do have everything I need, even when it comes to __________________. The Lord will provide me green pastures, even though I may not recognize them at first. I may think that what I need is missing, but it will be there. I’ll figure that out faster if I rest (Lie down) in God. The still waters are there for me to drink form any minute I need them. In certain events today, such as _______________, I may need them frequently.
                God is restoring my broken soul today. It is healthier than ever. When I become confused today, God will guide me in the right path. Again, I may not recognize it until later, but I can trust God’s name, God’s presence, and God’s power in my life today.

     
    Psalm 23  A psalm of David.
    1 The LORD is my shepherd, I shall not be in want.
     2 He makes me lie down in green pastures,
           he leads me beside quiet waters,

     3 he restores my soul.
           He guides me in paths of righteousness
           for his name's sake.

     4 Even though I walk
           through the valley of the shadow of death,
           I will fear no evil,
           for you are with me;
           your rod and your staff,
           they comfort me.

     5 You prepare a table before me
           in the presence of my enemies.
           You anoint my head with oil;
           my cup overflows.

     6 Surely goodness and love will follow me
           all the days of my life,
           and I will dwell in the house of the LORD
           forever.

     

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    Thursday, January 07, 2010

    You Are Great (audio) | John Larson

    Sunday, January 03, 2010

    Eye of the Needle | January 3, 2010

    One of the joys of my mid-day lap swim workouts is catching glimpses of the skies above. Lucky for me, I not only live in Hawai‘i but swim in a 50-meter outdoor pool near the back of a gorgeous, green valley. Each time I turn to breathe, I can see the ridges of the mountains and, above them, skies that almost always float with clouds being pushed forward by winds blowing them out to sea. When a friend moved here recently from the mainland, he commented, “Hawai‘i is the cloudiest place I know.” That struck me as odd—at first. I always thought of Hawai‘i as having clear, blue skies, forgetting about the puffs of white cotton that do always dot our skies, that bring sudden sprinkles of rain that we shake off within minutes and keep our islands green, that filter the burning rays of an otherwise unrelenting tropical sun, that play across the skies in innumerable shapes, sizes, wisps, towers, sheets, and layers, and which at the end of the day lay themselves out as canvas for the setting sun to splay its palette of colors before dipping below the horizon. I suppose that because clouds always fill our skies, I’ve come to see the clouds as sky itself, inseparable. I don’t know the sky without them.

      Last week when I was swimming, I caught a hole in the clouds — not an ordinary hole, mind you, in which the cloud had thinned or separated or was being blow apart. This was a triangular hole seemingly cut out of a thick wad of cumulus cloud, more akin to a keyhole because of its geometric symmetry and the uniformly deep frame around it as if someone had purposefully rendered it to showcase the vivid blue sky that lay behind. Was I to look at the cloud or the hole? The composition of the clouds or what lay beyond, what was more fascinating— the foreground or the background? I suppose I couldn’t have the one without the other.

      And then it seemed as if I were peering through to something beyond, heaven perhaps. Not a keyhole, but a peephole. Not a peephole, but a portal, an opening, a way in. I was on one side, and something lay, waiting beyond, on the other side.

      And that is so God. God is always all about openings. That’s all he ever does in our lives. He creates openings for us to walk through and see the other side, his side, a side we can’t comprehend unless we step through to the other side.

      I think of the eye of the needle
    And a rich young ruler. Here’s the story told in the Gospel of Luke (Luke 18:18-27):

     

    A certain ruler asked him, "Good teacher, what must I do to inherit eternal life?"

    "Why do you call me good?" Jesus answered. "No one is good—except God alone. You know the commandments: 'Do not commit adultery, do not murder, do not steal, do not give false testimony, honor your father and mother.'" "All these I have kept since I was a boy," he said.

    When Jesus heard this, he said to him, "You still lack one thing. Sell everything you have and give to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven. Then come, follow me."

    When he heard this, he became very sad, because he was a man of great wealth. Jesus looked at him and said, "How hard it is for the rich to enter the kingdom of God! Indeed, it is easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle than for a rich man to enter the kingdom of God."

    Those who heard this asked, "Who then can be saved?"

    Jesus replied, "What is impossible with men is possible with God."

    You know, for years I always got caught up in this story with the camel that can’t get through the eye of the needle. It’s the same place those who heard Jesus first get caught up, too—in trying to push a big, fat, hairy, stubborn camel through the eye of a needle. Ridiculous. And Jesus says it’s easier to do that than for a rich man to enter the kingdom of God. So in my mind’s eye, I leave the rich man outside the gates of God’s kingdom—I don’t even try to get him through—because Jesus says there’s an easy way to thread a camel through a needle. I’m unloading the camel, squishing it, flattening it, experimenting with hooves in first or the bristly hairs atop its nose.

      And I forget two things, no three:
    1.    It’s impossible with men
    2.    It’s possible with God
    3.    The eye of the needle

      The first means, I should just forget even trying. The second means that because it’s impossible and no man or woman can do it, God can. And the third simply reminds me that the reason the camel can get through is that the eye of a needle is a hole, a passageway – a passage, a way.

      The eye of the needle reminds me that when I have no way, when I can’t find a way out of a situation nor into a better place (God’s kingdom), I have to look to God to show me a hole, the very sliver of a hole through which he can draw me. When God creates a way, anything is possible.

      It’s called grace—being given access to the humanly impossible because God makes divinely possible. Grace, in other words, is simply God showing us a hole in the clouds, God making a way, God opening the door when we thought it slammed shut, God unlocking the gate when we thought our entrance was barred. It’s God reaching through from his side and tearing our worlds apart so that we can enter the Kingdom.

      It’s amazing what you can think of while taking a breath while swimming.

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    Thursday, December 17, 2009

    Other places God's been at work: Three ways to keep you ego in check (John Baldoni of Harvard Business Review)

    This great post from John Baldoni of the Harvard Business Review is, not coincidentally, where God has been speaking to me — basically keeping my strengths and my self in check, not overstepping my bounds, being realistic, and allowing others to help me.


    Three Ways to Keep Your Ego in Check
     
    "It's okay if other people think you're God, but you're in trouble if you start believing it."

    David Cornwell, a sports attorney, recalled that quote as one uttered by his father, a surgeon. While Cornwell was speaking on <http://transcripts.cnn.com/TRANSCRIPTS/0912/02/lkl.01.html>  Larry King Live about Tiger Woods' foibles <http://blogs.harvardbusiness.org/hbr/hbreditors/2009/12/scandal_catches_tiger_by_the_t.html> , the quote has relevance to anyone in a leadership position, not just doctors and big name athletes.

    Sure, leaders have to believe in themselves — otherwise no one else will. Their conviction in their own abilities has to be strong as well as resilient, but such self-assurance cannot be allowed to become arrogance. So often when we see business leaders making poor decisions it seems as if their ego is speaking louder than their voice of reason.

    And yet we need to remember that, while it's easy to throw stones at people and power, and lampoon their outsized egos when they stumble, so often that outsize ego is the result of the relentless fawning of others. You do not rise to power without followers, but if that followership is more sycophantic than supportive, the leader can lose his bearings.

    Keeping your ego in check is an exercise in humility, with the emphasis on the word exercise, so here are a few tips:

    Accept praise, but never believe it totally. Ancient Romans had a tradition of welcoming home victorious military commanders with a state-sponsored procession that included the commander riding in his chariot. Legend has it <http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Roman_triumph> that a slave standing next to him would hold a golden laurel above his head and whisper into his ear, "Remember you are mortal." True or not, it is a good lesson for anyone who achieves success to remind himself that success is earned, not bestowed. You need to keep earning it.

    Listen to your best friend.
    While the word "friendship" may have become diluted in this era of social media mouse-clicking, the relationship between people who know and respect each other remains essential. Such friends (be they spouses or colleagues) are not afraid to give each other the straight dope. Senior leaders need the friendship of one or two close associates whom they trust above others to tell them the truth. Treasure those friendships.

    Reflect on your shortcomings. Taking time out to gain perspective on what you are doing is valuable. In the Catholic tradition, penitents are taught to go through an examination of conscience, reflecting on their transgressions. A frank look at what you have done wrong, as it applies to decisions made, behaviors exerted, and treatment of others is vital to a leader keeping his head on straight. Too much dwelling on the negative is not good, but a frank assessment of shortcomings is advised.

    Ego affirms a leader's ability to take charge. But checking the ego demonstrates a leader's ability to take charge of himself. That is critical to developing strong organizations which can achieve sustainable results.

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    Wednesday, December 16, 2009

    God's been working on my insides

    God's been working on my insides, renovating me, helping me to grow more in the ways He wants me to grow, and not just in the ways I think I should grow. He’s been speaking through some difficult circumstances, hard and challenging situations, through conversations with friends who love me, through introspection, books, sermons —and this scripture from 2 Peter 1:2-11. He’s lovingly asking me to move in His direction, and keeping me in close company when it’s been more difficult than I’ve liked. But He’s gentle and patient and good and sees my heart and loves me anyway.


    Here are three versions of the same passage. Perhaps God has a message for you, too.

    2 Peter 1:2-11 (New International Version)

     
    2Grace and peace be yours in abundance through the knowledge of God and of Jesus our Lord.

     3His divine power has given us everything we need for life and godliness through our knowledge of him who called us by his own glory and goodness. 4Through these he has given us his very great and precious promises, so that through them you may participate in the divine nature and escape the corruption in the world caused by evil desires.

     5For this very reason, make every effort to add to your faith goodness; and to goodness, knowledge; 6and to knowledge, self-control; and to self-control, perseverance; and to perseverance, godliness; 7and to godliness, brotherly kindness; and to brotherly kindness, love. 8For if you possess these qualities in increasing measure, they will keep you from being ineffective and unproductive in your knowledge of our Lord Jesus Christ. 9But if anyone does not have them, he is nearsighted and blind, and has forgotten that he has been cleansed from his past sins.

     10Therefore, my brothers, be all the more eager to make your calling and election sure. For if you do these things, you will never fall, 11and you will receive a rich welcome into the eternal kingdom of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ.


    New Living Translation
     2 May God give you more and more grace and peace as you grow in your knowledge of God and Jesus our Lord.

     3 By his divine power, God has given us everything we need for living a godly life. We have received all of this by coming to know him, the one who called us to himself by means of his marvelous glory and excellence. 4 And because of his glory and excellence, he has given us great and precious promises. These are the promises that enable you to share his divine nature and escape the world’s corruption caused by human desires.

     5 In view of all this, make every effort to respond to God’s promises. Supplement your faith with a generous provision of moral excellence, and moral excellence with knowledge, 6 and knowledge with self-control, and self-control with patient endurance, and patient endurance with godliness, 7 and godliness with brotherly affection, and brotherly affection with love for everyone.

     8 The more you grow like this, the more productive and useful you will be in your knowledge of our Lord Jesus Christ. 9 But those who fail to develop in this way are shortsighted or blind, forgetting that they have been cleansed from their old sins.

     10 So, dear brothers and sisters, work hard to prove that you really are among those God has called and chosen. Do these things, and you will never fall away. 11 Then God will give you a grand entrance into the eternal Kingdom of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ.

    The Message
     1-2 I, Simon Peter, am a servant and apostle of Jesus Christ. I write this to you whose experience with God is as life-changing as ours, all due to our God's straight dealing and the intervention of our God and Savior, Jesus Christ. Grace and peace to you many times over as you deepen in your experience with God and Jesus, our Master.

     3-4 Everything that goes into a life of pleasing God has been miraculously given to us by getting to know, personally and intimately, the One who invited us to God. The best invitation we ever received! We were also given absolutely terrific promises to pass on to you—your tickets to participation in the life of God after you turned your back on a world corrupted by lust.

     5-9 So don't lose a minute in building on what you've been given, complementing your basic faith with good character, spiritual understanding, alert discipline, passionate patience, reverent wonder, warm friendliness, and generous love, each dimension fitting into and developing the others. With these qualities active and growing in your lives, no grass will grow under your feet, no day will pass without its reward as you mature in your experience of our Master Jesus. Without these qualities you can't see what's right before you, oblivious that your old sinful life has been wiped off the books.

     10-11 So, friends, confirm God's invitation to you, his choice of you. Don't put it off; do it now. Do this, and you'll have your life on a firm footing, the streets paved and the way wide open into the eternal kingdom of our Master and Savior, Jesus Christ.

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    Friday, November 20, 2009

    The blessing of friends

    I’ve been thinking a lot about friends lately and the riches that lie in good friends that stand with us in every situation. They are the people that hold us up when we’re too tired to go a step further. They are the people who sit with us through the darkness and the night. They are the ones who call out our names when we are groping in a haze of confusion, who remind us of who we are at our essence and at our core. They are the ones that laugh with us, celebrate with us, and count our blessings with us. Thank God for friends. They are part of who we are.

    Here’s what Proverbs says about friends like these.

    Proverbs 17:17 (The Message)
     Friends love through all kinds of weather,
       and families stick together in all kinds of trouble.

    Proverbs 18:24 (The Message)
     Friends come and friends go,
       but a true friend sticks by you like family.

    Proverbs 27:6 (New International Version)
     Wounds from a friend can be trusted,
         but an enemy multiplies kisses.

    Proverbs 27:9 (New International Version)
     Perfume and incense bring joy to the heart,
           and the pleasantness of one's friend springs from his earnest counsel.

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    Regina Brett's 45 life lessons and 5 to grow on

    A friend passed this on to me today. Words of wisdom, something for every and any day, written by Regina Brett.

    To celebrate growing older, I once wrote the 45 lessons life taught me.
    It is the most-requested column I've ever written. My odometer rolls over to 50 this week, so here's an update:

    1. Life isn't fair, but it's still good.
    2. When in doubt, just take the next small step.
    3. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone.
    4. Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does.
    5. Pay off your credit cards every month.
    6. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.
    7. Cry with someone. It's more healing than crying alone.
    8. It's OK to get angry with God. He can take it.
    9. Save for retirement starting with your first paycheck.
    10. When it comes to chocolate, resistance is futile.
    11. Make peace with your past so it won't screw up the present.
    12. It's OK to let your children see you cry.
    13. Don't compare your life to others'. You have no idea what their journey is all about.
    14. If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn't be in it.
    15. Everything can change in the blink of an eye. But don't worry; God never blinks.
    16. Life is too short for long pity parties. Get busy living, or get busy dying.
    17. You can get through anything if you stay put in today.
    18. A writer writes. If you want to be a writer, write.
    19. It's never too late to have a happy childhood. But the second one is up to you and no one else.
    20. When it comes to going after what you love in life, don't take no for an answer.
    21. Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy lingerie. Don't save it for a special occasion. Today is special.
    22. Overprepare, then go with the flow.
    23. Be eccentric now. Don't wait for old age to wear purple.
    24. The most important sex organ is the brain.
    25. No one is in charge of your happiness except you.
    26. Frame every so-called disaster with these words: "In five years, will this matter?"
    27. Always choose life.
    28. Forgive everyone everything.
    29. What other people think of you is none of your business.
    30. Time heals almost everything. Give time time.
    31. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.
    32. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your friends will. Stay in touch.
    33. Believe in miracles.
    34. God loves you because of who God is, not because of anything you did or didn't do.
    35. Whatever doesn't kill you really does make you stronger.
    36. Growing old beats the alternative - dying young.
    37. Your children get only one childhood. Make it memorable.
    38. Read the Psalms. They cover every human emotion.
    39. Get outside every day. Miracles are waiting everywhere.
    40. If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone else's, we'd grab ours back.
    41. Don't audit life. Show up and make the most of it now.
    42. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful.
    43. All that truly matters in the end is that you loved.
    44. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.
    45. The best is yet to come.
    46. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.
    47. Take a deep breath. It calms the mind.
    48. If you don't ask, you don't get.
    49. Yield.
    50. Life isn't tied with a bow, but it's still a gift.

    Originally published in The Plain Dealer on Sunday, May 28, 2006
    Learn more about Regina at http://www.reginabrett.com/

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